Time to finish my belated trip account to Salt Lake in February, my daughters graduation in May and other summer travel and travails. LOL
I’m spending time with the grand and great grands and a son right now and what a ride it’s been. I visit them from time to time but not for as long as this trip has been. In part it is (was) because my son who lives with my grand daughter Becca (his niece), had an unusual seizure and was ill for awhile. With all that she does, he was in no position to help her with their usual routine. Caring for him and everything else she does was really more than the poor girl could take on alone as you will see as this story progresses.
Normally, I wouldn’t have been there at all as I was scheduled to see them in a May for my other daughter, her aunt’s graduation. More on that in the sequel.
While I’m there I see that he is on the mend. Still weak but better. Apparently his new medication compounded with two jobs triggered something.
After a few days, he and my granddaughter are dancing to some MTV video.
It may seem odd, but these two are like brother and sister as their ages are fairly close. This was their form of exercise and they had a hard time keeping up with the dancers in the video.
Each morning begins with feeding 5 dogs (the three puppies are fed by mommy) followed by putting them out to do their business, yes there’s a grand total of eight!
Three labs, one long hair Chihuahua and a Pom-chi with three puppies. The sweet dog with the grey muzzle has since passed away.
My hubby and I still have a dog and cat. Like us they are getting old but we hope they go before either of us does. For two reasons: One: the thought of them having to be traumatized by new owners at their old age would be devastating to them. As it is we left them with a relative for a week and although they did well, they were clingy when we returned. It would be akin to abandoning a child or putting them up for adoption. Two: We want to travel and do other things once my hubby retires and you just can’t take them everywhere, period. At 16, Chloe doesn’t travel well anymore anyway.
Besides the dogs, we had the kids, well there are only two, who have to be fed and dressed or made sure they are appropriately attired for school. Ally kept donning on her princess or ballerina clothes and combing her hair amid loud protestations was a fete in itself, not to mention a significant amount of cajoling to even get them to leave the house. Most of that was my fault, as staying at home to be with “Grandma Jo” was their preferred choice. So, we compromised and Grandma Jo went to school for Grandparents day!
(BIG MISTAKE!!! You do know that small children are petri dishes of bacteria, right? It hit me when I got home and lasted a TWO months!!)
I silently praise God that those days of hustling kids off to school are done, while at the same time, periodic moments of nostalgia with my kids would swoosh over me, remembering those days. I am sure many a mom reminisces the good times, the hugs and story time.
Then there are Thursdays, Becca calls it the trifecta schedule.
Off to ballet for Ally while Kash takes guitar lessons across the street. While they are in their classes, mommy runs to McDonald’s to grab “dinner” before H.O.C.K.E.Y!!!
A week into my visit, it snowed. I leave the following Friday, so I was a bit anxious. Is it going to do it again? I’m not used to driving in that white stuff anymore and visions of me sliding all over the highway haunt my sleep.
My grand daughter lost some days of work when Ian was ill but tonight she had a late shift, so before she leaves I want to clear the driveway for her. Kash helped for all of a minute pushing snow around before he finally sat on a drift and watched grandma do the work. In all fairness, a shovel full of snow is quite heavy for a seven year old.
In the meantime, Becca wasn’t looking forward to work that day. She works at a high end hotel Spa as a massage therapist. Flights had been cancelled the previous day due to the “storm”, which meant they would be busy. She didn’t mind busy, but she noticed her two last appointments were male and she groaned. I immediately got the picture. She’s a beautiful girl so I wondered and asked if it happened often that she was propositioned and she said “it happens”. She is a lovely girl, so I wasn’t surprised.
Unfortunately, there is still the stigma that goes with her job. Massages at this hotel are pricey and she has served many luminaries during their stay. However, these guests on her schedule were not stars or anyone whose names she recognized. As it turns out, it generally went fine. One gentleman asked her if she dated and she said, “No”, which may have been a veiled invite, but it was not obviously so. Thanks to all the “Me Too” media coverage of sexual harassment, it has been much better, she says. The second client did not ask her anything so personal but was by nature just plain “obnoxious”. My granddaughter is her own person and quite forthright, only once has she had to turn a client in for misbehaving. Apparently, he had overstepped his bounds with one of the other girls before and she was afraid to say anything. Not Becca. Fortunately the hotel backs their staff to the point of even banning some very wealthy repeat customers that are discourteous to their staff. Her co-workers are both male and female and all are treated with equal consideration.
Shortly after I left, besides me getting deathly ill, the kids too got sick.
Before graduation, Ally fell off the trampoline and broke her leg. The trampoline does have a surround netting, so it was unclear what happened.
For a child, whose bones are referred to as “green”, hers was a clean break (?) and such that it required surgery and pins placed. It was, as you can well imagine, quite traumatic.
I asked her if she’d be getting on the trampoline again. She said, ” next time, (I guessed that was a yes) I will remember to zip it up better”. Apparently, she hadn’t zipped it all the way up and fell out the only spot open. She just turned 5.
To be continued…